You will choose between abi, abla and kardeşim when you talk to someone, and tell calling a person apart from speaking about your own brother or sister.

The idea

Abi (man) and abla (woman) follow a first name, in lowercase, to address someone a few years older than you, whether or not you are related: Ali abi, Selin abla. Alone they call out to a stranger: Abi, bir çay lütfen. To a younger person, or warmly to a friend, you say kardeşim. When you mean your own brother or sister, add the possessive: abim, ablam, ablamız.

Patterns to compare
WordCalling someoneSpeaking of my ownPlural
abiAli abiAli abimabiler
ablaSelin ablaSelin ablamablalar
kardeşkardeşimkardeşimkardeşler

Examples

  • Abi, bir çay lütfen.A tea, please, abi.
  • Selin abla yarın geliyor.Selin abla is coming tomorrow.Abla follows the first name and is written in lowercase. It marks a woman a little older than you, and she does not have to be a relative.
  • Kardeşim, burada bekle.Wait here, kardeşim.Kardeşim is for someone younger or a friend of your age. The ending -im is part of the set phrase, even though the person is not really yours.
  • Murat abim bugün işte.My older brother Murat is at work today.With the possessive, abim speaks about your own brother. Said to a friend's brother, it would be Murat abi.
  • Ablam benimle geliyor.My older sister is coming with me.
  • Pardon abla, bu otobüs müzeye gidiyor mu?Excuse me, abla, does this bus go to the museum?
  • Sağ ol, Ali abi.Thanks, Ali abi.
  • Abim bizimle yaşıyor.My older brother lives with us.
  • ablamızour older sisterablamız-imiz / -ımız / -umuz / -ümüz: our
  • abilerimmy older brothersabiler-ler / -lar: the plural suffixim-im / -ım / -um / -üm / -m: my

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Watch out

Do not add a possessive when you call a person: Ali abim usually means your own brother Ali, while a friend's brother is Ali abi. For someone clearly older, such as a parent's age, many people choose amca or teyze instead of abi or abla.

Try it yourself

  1. Add the address word for a woman a little older than you: Selin ___.

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    abla

    abla: Selin is a woman a little older than you, so the word is abla, lowercase after the name.

  2. Add the address word for a man a little older than you: Cem ___, thanks.

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    abi

    abi: Cem is a man a little older and you are calling to him, so there is no possessive: abi, not abim.

  3. Add the word for your own older brother (with the possessive): Ali ___ is at work today.

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    abim

    abim: here you speak about your own older brother, so the possessive -im is added to abi.

  4. Make 'our older sister' from abla.

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    ablamız

    ablamız: abla ends in a vowel, so "our" is -mız here, and the vowel a gives ı.

Use it today

Write three short lines to people of different ages from your day: a stallholder, a friend's older sister and a younger cousin, and pick abi, abla or kardeşim for each.