You will make polite requests with lütfen, soften them with a question form, and use buyurun when you give or invite.

The idea

Lütfen can stand at the start, before the verb or at the end of a request: Lütfen bekleyin, Bekleyin lütfen. To sound polite to a stranger, ask a question instead of giving a command: Su verir misiniz? (literally: do you give water?). To open a favour, use Bir rica edebilir miyim?.

Patterns to compare
PhraseUse
Bir çay lütfen.ordering at a counter
Su verir misiniz?asking a stranger to give or bring you something
Lütfen bekleyin.a polite instruction to a stranger or a group
Bir rica edebilir miyim?opening a request for a favour
Buyurun.handing something over or inviting someone

Examples

  • Lütfen bana su verir misiniz?Could you give me some water, please?Even with lütfen, a bare command to a stranger sounds like an order. The question verir misiniz? (literally: do you give?) is the everyday polite form.
  • Lütfen kapıyı kapatın.Please close the door.
  • Bir çay lütfen.One tea, please.
  • Lütfen yavaş konuşur musunuz?Could you speak slowly, please?
  • Buyurun, çayınız.Here you are, your tea.When you hand something over, Turkish uses buyurun. Lütfen only asks; it never gives or invites.
  • Buyurun, oturun.Please, have a seat.
  • Lütfen burada bekleyin.Please wait here.Bekle- ends in a vowel, so the polite command adds a buffer y: bekleyin. After a consonant the ending is plain, as in kapatın.
  • Bir rica edebilir miyim?May I ask a favour?Rica etmek means to request. Before a vowel the t of et- softens to d: edebilir, not etebilir.

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Watch out

English please also covers handing over and inviting, but lütfen only asks. When you give something or invite someone to sit, say buyurun: Buyurun, çayınız, not Lütfen, çayınız.

Try it yourself

  1. You hand a guest their tea. Fill the gap with the word for 'here you are' (not lütfen).

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    buyurun

    buyurun: you are giving something, and lütfen can only ask, so handing over and inviting take buyurun.

  2. Make the polite command from bekle- (to wait): wait, please.

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    bekleyin

    bekleyin: bekle- ends in a vowel, so the polite command takes a buffer y and the ending becomes -yin.

  3. Complete the polite request 'Could you give me water?' with ver- (to give) and its -ir ending.

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    verir

    verir: the question verir misiniz? literally asks whether you give, which sounds gentler than a command.

  4. May I ask a favour? Fill the gap with the form of etmek (to do) that means 'can do', and mind the consonant.

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    edebilir

    edebilir: the t of etmek softens to d before a vowel, so et- + -ebilir gives edebilir.

Use it today

Write three short lines: ordering a drink, asking a stranger to wait, and handing someone the salt. Check that only the first two contain lütfen.