You will tell three Turkish phrases for “sorry” apart: for your own fault, for a bump, and for speaking to a stranger.

The idea

Turkish splits English “sorry” into jobs. Özür dilerim is a real apology when something is your fault. Pardon is the light word for a bump or for squeezing past, and Pardon? means “say that again?”. Affedersiniz opens a question to a stranger; to a friend it becomes affedersin. The reply is önemli değil.

Patterns to compare
Small matter, friendSmall matter, politeReal apologyReply
affedersinaffedersinizözür dilerimönemli değil
pardonpardonçok özür dilerimsorun değil

Examples

  • Özür dilerim, geç kaldım.I'm sorry, I'm late.Özür dilerim is a real apology, so the reason comes after it. Geç kalmak means to be late.
  • Affedersiniz, banka nerede?Excuse me, where is the bank?The ending -siniz makes affedersiniz polite, for strangers and elders. Nothing is your fault here; it only opens the question.
  • Pardon, size çarptım.Sorry, I bumped into you.Pardon is the light word for a bump. For a bigger mistake, switch to özür dilerim.
  • Pardon?Pardon? (please say that again)With a rising voice, Pardon? asks the speaker to say it again.
  • Çok özür dilerim.I'm very sorry.
  • Önemli değil.It's nothing. / No problem.
  • Affedersin, bu senin kalemin mi?Excuse me, is this your pen?To a friend you say affedersin, the sen form. To a stranger you say affedersiniz, as in the next sentence.
  • Affedersiniz, bu sizin kaleminiz mi?Excuse me, is this your pen?

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Watch out

Do not start with özür dilerim to stop a stranger or to pass someone in a crowd: it sounds as if you had wronged them. Use affedersiniz or pardon there, and keep özür dilerim for real mistakes such as being late.

Try it yourself

  1. You stop a stranger to ask the way: Excuse me, where is the bank?

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    Affedersiniz / Pardon

    Affedersiniz: you are stopping a stranger, so the polite -siniz form fits, and nothing is your fault. Pardon also works as a light opener.

  2. You are late and it is your fault: I am sorry, I am late.

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    Özür dilerim / Çok özür dilerim

    Özür dilerim: being late is your fault, so a real apology fits better than the light pardon.

  3. You speak to a friend: Excuse me, is this your pen?

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    Affedersin / Pardon

    Affedersin: a friend gets sen, so the word ends in -sin; -siniz would sound distant. Pardon works too.

  4. Someone apologises to you. You answer: It's nothing.

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    Önemli değil / Sorun değil

    Önemli değil: it answers the apology and says the matter is not important. Sorun değil means the same.

Use it today

Think of three small moments from today, such as being late, passing someone on a bus, or asking the way. Write which phrase you would say in each and why.