Practise a host-and-guest exchange you could follow in a domestic scene. The dialogue below was written for this lesson; it comes from no programme.

The idea

In an offer, Çay içer misin? means “Would you like tea?”, not necessarily a question about a habit. Use Çay içer misiniz? for polite address or several people, and Kek ister misin? for cake. Accept with Evet, lütfen or Bir bardak alayım (I’ll have a glass). Buyur or polite Buyurun accompanies handing something over; Afiyet olsun wishes someone enjoyment of food or drink. Keep a space before misin and misiniz.

Read the text

Ev sahibi: Çay içer misin? Kek de var.

Misafir: Evet, lütfen. Ben bir bardak alayım.

Ev sahibi: Peki, bir dilim kek ister misin?

Misafir: Yok, teşekkür ederim. Şimdi kek istemiyorum.

Ev sahibi: Tamam. Buyur, çayın hazır.

Misafir: Teşekkür ederim.

Ev sahibi: Afiyet olsun.

Examples

  • Sen çay içer misin?Would you like some tea?
  • Ben bir bardak alayım.I’ll have a glass.
  • Ben şimdi çay istemiyorum.I don’t want tea right now.
  • Bir dilim kek ister misiniz?Would you like a slice of cake?
  • Evet, lütfen. Çok teşekkür ederim.Yes, please. Thank you very much.
  • Yok, teşekkür ederim. Şimdi istemiyorum.No, thank you. I don’t want any right now.
  • Buyurun, çayınız hazır.Here you are, your tea is ready.
  • Afiyet olsun, kek de var.Enjoy; there’s cake too.

Read-aloud uses a synthetic Turkish voice available on your device. Voice quality and availability vary; it does not assess your pronunciation.

Watch out

Do not rely on Teşekkür ederim alone to mean yes: after an offer, thanks can also accompany a refusal. Make your choice clear with Evet, lütfen or Yok, teşekkür ederim. Hayır, teşekkür ederim is also a clear refusal; there is no rule that a guest must refuse first.

Try it yourself

  1. Offer tea to one friend using sen: fill the gap.

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    misin

    misin: the cue sen addresses one familiar person. The polite or plural misiniz would change that address; içer and misin remain separate words.

  2. You want the cake being offered. Choose the reply that accepts.

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    Evet, lütfen

    Evet, lütfen: you want the cake, so the positive reply authorises the host to serve it. The other option politely turns the offer down.

  3. You do not want another tea. Choose either reply that clearly refuses and thanks the host.

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    Yok, teşekkür ederim / Hayır, teşekkür ederim

    Yok, teşekkür ederim / Hayır, teşekkür ederim: both decline the extra tea while appreciating the offer. The negative word makes the choice explicit.

  4. You hand a guest their tea and politely say “Here you are”. Choose the matching phrase.

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    Buyurun

    Buyurun: the guest is being handed a cup. Afiyet olsun would wish enjoyment instead, so it does not express the requested “Here you are”.

Use it today

Act out the original dialogue twice: first accept tea and decline cake, then switch. Change the host’s questions to polite address. Next, practise reassuring someone who apologises.