You will suggest a plan, invite one person, say yes with olur and say no without sounding rude.

The idea

To suggest something together, add -elim or -alım to the verb stem and write mi or mı as a separate word that follows the last vowel: çıkalım mı?, gidelim mi?. To invite one person, ask with the aorist: gelir misin?. Accept with olur or çok isterim; refuse with maalesef, müsait değilim and a reason, and offer başka bir gün. A time takes the locative (yedide), a destination the dative (müzeye).

Patterns to compare
VerbSuggestion: shall we …?Invitation: will you …?
gitmekgidelim mi?gider misin?
gelmekgelelim mi?gelir misin?
buluşmakbuluşalım mı?buluşur musun?
çıkmakçıkalım mı?çıkar mısın?
yapmakyapalım mı?yapar mısın?
oturmakoturalım mı?oturur musun?

Examples

  • Yarın akşam yürüyüşe çıkalım mı?Shall we go out for a walk tomorrow evening?The ending -alım means "we" in a suggestion, and the particle mı is written apart.
  • Cumartesi akşamı bize gelir misin?Will you come over to our place on Saturday evening?
  • Olur, saat yedide kafede buluşalım.OK, let's meet at the café at seven.Olur is the usual "agreed". A clock time takes the locative: yedide.
  • Maalesef yarın akşam müsait değilim.Unfortunately I am not free tomorrow evening.Maalesef ("unfortunately") softens the refusal, and müsait değilim gives no detail to argue with.
  • Çok isterim ama cumartesi çalışıyorum.I would love to, but I am working on Saturday.
  • Cumartesi olmaz ama pazar günü olur.Saturday does not work, but Sunday does.Olmaz means "that will not work", olur means "that works": both judge the plan, not you.
  • Başka bir gün buluşalım mı?Shall we meet another day?
  • Hafta sonu için bir planın var mı?Do you have a plan for the weekend?

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Watch out

Olur is a clear yes, "fine, agreed", not "maybe". A bare Olmaz can sound blunt, so start with maalesef, add müsait değilim or a reason, and offer another day. Also keep the particle apart and in harmony: çıkalım mı, not çıkalımmı or çıkalım mi.

Try it yourself

  1. Add the suffix to müze (museum): Shall we go to the museum tomorrow?

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    müzeye

    müzeye: müze ends in a vowel, so the dative adds the buffer y, and the front vowel e gives -ye.

  2. Add the suffix: Let's meet at seven o'clock.

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    yedide

    yedide: a clock time takes the locative, and the last vowel i is front, so the ending is -de.

  3. Complete the suggestion: Shall we go out for a walk together?

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    çıkalım

    çıkalım: the last vowel of the stem, ı, is back, so the "we" ending is -alım and mı follows it.

  4. Complete the invitation: Will you come to our place on Sunday?

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    gelir

    gelir: an invitation to one person uses the aorist, and after the front vowel e the ending is -ir, followed by misin.

Use it today

Write two sentences inviting a friend to do something this weekend, then an answer that accepts and an answer that refuses politely with a reason.